RedSoxMan is very astute...for the amount of time, money, and passion that are all poured into the hobby there is generally little public attention paid to the results. So if anyone thinks that a Hublot with a ceramic bezel will get you laid, then that fella is in for some unfotunate news and possible a protective order. I think I can always tell the members who are truly obsessed because they are eager to show off their multiple briefcases of watches and proudly proclaim that they are unworn and in pristine condition.
My guiding principle is never to buy more than I would wear AND always buy the better quality items. That should keep me from sinking into Dante's 5th stage. Oh and so long as I can admire my watch at the dog park or while pounding out a mundane email at work, then I can achieve inner peace!
Tony