Neil,
I really feel for you, as sight (especially to a watch collector, addict, vendor, admirer) is a very very important sense. Watches would just not be the same if you could only hear and feel them, perhaps taken to an extreme level "sniff" them and taste them.
I hope you have a speedy recovery!
Something you said in one of your replies, struck a chord though;
".....you suffer from that thing that I must say most Americans suffer from...."I want it...I want it now.....I'm the customer....and by God if I don't get it...hear me roar....I don't give a [censored]....I NEED my fix....NOW".....!"
Now, for not wanting to open a can of worms, or creating a whole new topic on expectations and dealers - collectors...
It's ALL about communication and doing what you say, I don't know how to better state this thought.
Scenario;
Customer orders a watch
Dealer says "I have it in stock and will send it *when I receive payment*.
Customer sends payment
Dealer does not send watch right away, but instead sends it out 1,2 or 3 months later.
I am not saying you are guilty of the above scenario, as I have not dealt with you in the past.
Illness aside; Its just that your above quote scares the cr@p outta me, it sort gives me the idea that you do not have your customer's best interests at hand, and are not really bothered if you blow by your deadlines. We are your bread an butter (we meaning replica watch customers) and in my opinion, must be respected.
If a dealer tells me "I do not have it in stock, I have to build it, and I can only send it in 2 months" - The decision is them mine if I want to send my money or not and wait the 2 months, If I am told that my item is in stock and can be delivered once payment is received. that is what i expect, and it has nothing to do with me being North American, or European, or whatever else.
Again, we have never done business together, and the above statements are not accusations, just a comment on a quote that did not go down very well.
Note - I have sent you a PM a few days back concerning your NoobSFSO model.
Get well soon, I wish only the best for you your family and your health!
Robb