Not my words, but maybe can help:
"You can't lose what you never have"
Here's a story:
A couple once gambled their live savings on horses. They only have $100 left when they decided to stop.
The next day, the husband said to the wife: "you know what, I will try again today"
SO the husband went to the horse races again, and won $1000!
He continued to bet: $1000 becomes $10000, $10000 becomes $100000,
...and he finally went home with $1000000
On his way home, he saw there was a "double dare" card game. Wow! he can double his money he thinks. He is lucky today!
So he tried the game out: and BAM, LOSES ALL HIS $1000000
He went home, his wife greeted him: "How did it go darling? Did you win?"
The husband replied: "Darling, I lost the $100 too..."
"You can't lose what you never have"