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Hi all, I feel insulted by a member in this forum and I want to hear what is your opinion on this. Background: I bought many watch boxes (in fact too many) when I went on a business trip to GZ. And when I return home, I got welcomed with a sulky face from my wife. She "instruct" me to sell them all as they are taking up too much space and insist in me using the watch box she bought for me which I don't really like. =P So I put all the watch boxes up for sale. And I received many response and most of my box are grab straight away. Problem: Shortly I received a payment from let's call him "R". Mr. R bought a watch box from me. He made a payment through paypal and I agreed to ship it the next day. However, I have another member who are interested in my other boxes. But he have been dragging the payment and I prefer to go to the post office after both of them settled their payment. My journey to the nearest post office is 2 hours and back is another 2 hours. Moreover, due to my day work (9-6) I'm stuck in work and cannot make the trip to the post office anytime I want. Hence, I have to delayed the postage. And I let Mr. R know that too. Confrontation: And he PM me demanding for the tracking number or he will report to paypal. (I fully understand it's my fault to delay the postage) And in the PM he call me names and make me very uncomfortable. Below is the exact quote from Mr. R "i hate slow people. and i hate more people who have no words like men. a man says a word and does it. what you are doing tells me you are gay. or thief. choose one and reply." Reply: I got really upset to receive such abuse from Mr. R. Hence I told him my story. And I told him that I'm not a dealer and I'm not earning any profit from him. $0 profit. And I'm not a cheater or gay or thief or whatever he call me. And I have to absorb the paypal charges (4%) and packaging charges. Lastly, my trip to the post office is 2 hours and back is another 2 hours. Confrontation 2: And today I received another round of abuse from him "man with all the respect to your personal life! why the hell are you sharing this with me?? first rule in business is not to involve your customers in your problems. stop telling me you don't make profit, coz if you don't make profit you will not do it. and if you really don't make profit than you are stupid or crazy. anyways i don't give a [censored]. if i don't get a tracking number in 24 hours i will report you to paypal as a thief and i will make sure everybody in rag know you are stealing." Hey guys, do you think I deserve such abuse from Mr. R? And guys selling their watches without profit are stupid or crazy? Maybe I'm naive, do everyone selling their watch with a profit behind? I'm new here and hope to get some guidance from you. With that said, I'm on my way to get the postage done. In a rather unhappy mood.