Floppus,
Dude, I'd really like to help you, but... as they say, "Help me help you!"
I've got spare links for 2 different ladies' TAGs:
http://www.watcheden.biz/tag-heuer-link-roman-bezel-with-pink-dial-s-s-1-i-175934-p-1.html
http://www.watcheden.biz/tag-heuer-link-diamong-bezel-with-coffee-dial-s-s-sapphire-glass-i-194276-p-1.html
While the SS bracelets look very similar, they have very slightly different links with one being slightly thicker and neither of them compatible with the other.
So which one, exactly, have you got? Provide me with a photo or two and hyperlink to the exact watch and I'll (pun intended) link you up.