I have paid back more then 1000$ in my time on this boards to members for lost parcels.
Moral has nothing to do whit it, you are shipping a illegal item over some country's border if you want refound on lost parcels it better have your name on the return sender or invoice..So i no longer ship whit delivery garante its just have it is, sometimes i go to Sweden and send expensive watches to members here then their is garante as it is eu/eu
I agree on the last, sellers dictate the terms.
Cheers,
Dani