Which Cartier santos 100, 33mm or 38mm, for my (female)wrist?

[cubancurl]

My wrist is 5.5", I wear men's size watches, but no bigger then 39mm because it will look too big and not 'sexy.' I wear these a bit loose on my wrist.

I haven't seen any wrist photos of a woman wearing the santos watch 38mm. Is this because it is too big? I've read that the 38mm wears very big because of the square shape. Would the 33mm look 'big' enough and 'manly' enough on me? (I HATE small dainty sized watches for women)

I'd love to see any photos or experiences of those who purchased for their wives/girlfriends. PLEASE!

P.S. I would order with the leather strap.

Edited September 13, 2012 by cubancurl