Mothers.

[baglc1]

BEING A MOTHER...

After 17 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to

Take another woman out to dinner and a movie.

She said, 'I love you, but I know this other woman

Loves you and would love to spend some time with you.'

* * *

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit

Was my MOTHER, who has been alone for 20 years,

But the demands of my work and my two boys had

Made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

* * *

That night I cal led to invite her to go out for

Dinner and a movie.

* * *

'What's wrong, aren't you well,' she asked?

* * *

My mother is the type of woman who suspects that

A late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.

* * *

'I thought it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,

' I responded. 'Just the two of us.'

She thought about it for a moment, and then

Said, 'I would like that very much.'

* * *

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick

Her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at

Her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be

Nervous about our date. She waited in the door. She had

Curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had

Worn to celebrate her last birthday on November 19th.

* * *

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an

Angel's'. 'I told my friends that I was going to

Go out with my son, and they were impressed,' she

Said, as she got into that new white van. 'They can't

Wait to hear about our date'.

* * *

We went to a restaurant that, although not

Elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took

My arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat

Down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only

Read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted

My eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring

At me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. 'It was I

Who used to have to read the menu when you were

Small,' she said. 'Then it's time that you relax and

Let me return the favor,' I responded.

* * *

During the dinner, we had an agreeable

Conversation- -nothing extraordinary but catching up on

Recent events of each other's life. We talked so much

That we missed the movie.

* * *

As we arrived at her house later, she said, 'I'll

Go out with you again, but only if you let me

Invite you.' I agreed.

* * *

'How was your dinner date ?' asked my wife when

I got home. 'Very nice. Much more so than I could have

Imagined,' I answered.

* * *

A few days later, my mother died of a massive

Heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't

Have a chance to do anything for her.

* * *

Some time later, I received an envelope with a

Copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place

Mother and I had dined. An attached note said:

'I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I

Could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two

Plates - one for you and the other for your wife.

You will never know what that night meant for

Me. I love you, son.'

* * *

At that moment, I understood the importance

Of saying in time: 'I LOVE YOU' and to give our

Loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life

Is more important than your family. Give them the

Time they Des erve, because these things cannot be put

Off till 'some other time.'

* * *

Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get

Back to normal after you've had a baby.... Somebody

Doesn't know that once you're a mother, 'normal' is history.

* * *

Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by

Instinct . Somebody never took a three-year-old

Shopping.

* * *

Somebody said being a mother is boring ....somebody never rode in a car driven by a

Teenager with a driver's permit.

* * *

Somebody said if you're a 'good' mother,

Your child will 'turn out good'....

Somebody thinks a child comes with

Directions and a guarantee.

* * *

Somebody said you don't need an education to be

A mother.... Somebody never helped a fourth grader

With his math.

* * *

Somebody said you can 't love the s econd child as

Much as you love the first .... somebody doesn't

have two children.

* * *

Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother

is labor and delivery....

somebody never watched her 'baby' get on the bus

for the first day of kindergarten .

or on a plane headed for military 'boot camp.'

* * *

Somebody said a mother can stop worrying after

her child gets married....somebody doesn't know that

marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to a

mother's heartstrings.

* * I love this xxxxxx*

Somebody said a mother's job is done when her

last child leaves home....somebody never had

grandchildr en.

* * *

Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so

you don't need to tell her.... somebody isn't a

mother.

Pass this along to all the 'mothers' in your life

and to everyone who ever had a mother. This

isn't just about being a mother; it's about

appreciating the people in your life while you have

them....no matter who that person is.

[luisik]

Thank you for sharing this so beautiful thoughts and experience.

I need to visit my 79 years old parents right now.

Thank you.

[hiker01]

THANKS FOR SHARING!!!