well frankly.. i was prepared to lose the $$$ but i trust USPS to not screw up the watch back to me...
and gentlemen, since he already has agreed to return the watch to my designated address.. whether i recieve or not, trust has been given to him... what is more important to me is that i WILL NEVER refund ANYTHING without recieving the items ever again... you be surprise what parts may be taken off the watch or wat kind of condition it may arrived (in general, not implying that this watch will be in this mess)
a good lesson learned... alright, lets move on... it is not my intention to start a thread to "flame" him... it is to gather opinons whether am i doing the right thing.... looks like from all the replys.. i am right...
cheers