Brain there are very many understanding people on this forum, members are often commenting on how there is a real lack of the flaming they see on other forums around the net.
Give it time and you will find this place as comfortable as home.
The unfortunate mistake you made was not reading and learning how this community operates and because of that you posted a thread that hit straight on a raw nerve.
This is not just us, there is another 4 or 5 replica watch forums and all would have reacted the same but may also notice a couple of members have already stepped up with an offer to help you should the dealer solution prove unacceptable to you.
That's how we are, it's how we operate as a community.
My advise is to stop trying to defend the initial post and start integrating into the forum, the first will always end badly the second will open a whole new world of online friends for you.
Ken