TeeJay Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Remember how I've previously said what a piece of shit my wife's biological father was, and how he'd never paid his child support, and how we weren't inviting him to the wedding, and how he wouldn't come to he reception? Well, he keeled over by his watch stall this morning of a massive heart attack He doesn't have to worry about any more child support payments, the time has come him to answer to his Maker for his vile existence Please, no condolence messages, as he doesn't deserve it. Sympathy to his wife and mother, sure, but not him. I won't be a hypocrite and say how sorry I am, as the way he lived his life (overweight, too much rich food, the weight of his conscience etc) this wasn't exactly a surprise... What goes around, comes around, karma's a bitch, and all that, and right now, his eternal smiting has begun, and we can get on with the rest of our lives together without him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kitersoze Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 i've always wondered about people like that - the existence they've had, the choices they've made. relativism aside, do they really think, deep down where they don't like to look, that they're actually good people? after all, isn't that what we all think of ourselves in the end? are they really unaware of their effect on people's lives in the wake of their actions and decisions? because, after all the rationalizations lose their potency when faced with the end of days, i would think there's gotta be stark, unblinking, gnawing fear at what comes next, regardless of your creed or beliefs... good riddance... congrats on your impending nuptials, tj. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ammandel Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 I'm not sure how to respond to this! It made me giggle a bit.. and I'm not even sure whether to feel guilty about that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted January 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 i've always wondered about people like that - the existence they've had, the choices they've made. relativism aside, do they really think, deep down where they don't like to look, that they're actually good people? after all, isn't that what we all think of ourselves in the end? are they really unaware of their effect on people's lives in the wake of their actions and decisions? because, after all the rationalizations lose their potency when faced with the end of days, i would think there's gotta be stark, unblinking, gnawing fear at what comes next, regardless of your creed or beliefs... good riddance... congrats on your impending nuptials, tj. Thanks for the congratulations, it's much appreciated As for the moral question, well, he had done everything in his power (as acknowledged by the authorities) to avoid paying his child maintenance, and did not even have the common decency to offer to pay anything towards his daughter's wedding. Not even the offer of if there was anything we needed, not just financial... No, he knew what he was doing, but carried on regardless. He might've tried to convince himself he wasn't a bad guy, for, as you say, who wants to acknowledge that they're a bad person? But you only had to look at him to see his fear of being called out on his behaviour. I wouldn't've wished him dead, but I'm certainly not sad to see him out of my wife's life now. I'm not sure how to respond to this! It made me giggle a bit.. and I'm not even sure whether to feel guilty about that! Don't feel guilty, you should've heard the gallows humor we were coming out with when we were actually identifying the body (that's something I'd never have wanted my wife to have to do, but she insisted on making the id herself) As above, he really was a manipulative piece of shit. He's being punished for his life, that's good enough for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted January 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Just to be clear, I'm not actually happy about this for myself, I'm just glad my wife won't ever have to deal with him or his emotional blackmail ever again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave123 Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Remember how I've previously said what a piece of [censored] my wife's biological father was, and how he'd never paid his child support, and how we weren't inviting him to the wedding, and how he wouldn't come to he reception? Well, he keeled over by his watch stall this morning of a massive heart attack He doesn't have to worry about any more child support payments, the time has come him to answer to his Maker for his vile existence Please, no condolence messages, as he doesn't deserve it. Sympathy to his wife and mother, sure, but not him. I won't be a hypocrite and say how sorry I am, as the way he lived his life (overweight, too much rich food, the weight of his conscience etc) this wasn't exactly a surprise... What goes around, comes around, karma's a [censored], and all that, and right now, his eternal smiting has begun, and we can get on with the rest of our lives together without him I'm with ya TJ,when a dic*head dies,F. em. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted January 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 I'm with ya TJ,when a dic*head dies,F. em. Absolutely. I think the best thing we can now do, is move on and live our lives without the shadows his presence caused To be honest, even though he wasn't invited to the wedding, you can guarantee that he'd've made some kind of contact on the day itself to try and twist the knife, as he was just manipulative and spiteful like that. Even if he hadn't made contact, Emily would've been constantly worried that he would have, so this is no great loss to us. I feel sorry for his widow, and his mother, but not for him. To be honest, it's like a great weight has been lifted from our shoulders. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikellem Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Teejay, I can totally understand where you are coming from my friend! People like Emily's father deserve to NOT be in your lives anymore. I can imagine how much discontent you both have had to endure in the past. This is not easy and I can from personal experience.. People like unfortunately can ruin your life. I also totally understand how frustrated he as make you personally feel also! Now that he has passed...I think both of you will be quite a bit happier! Now he can not much up the waters anymore regarding your life with Emily.. Thanks for sharing my friend. I commend you for opening yourself up here!~ Something which is hard for me to do personally. Live your lives full now! Today is the first day of the rest of your life Teejay... Thanks for sharing my friend... Cheers, MM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeGambleur Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 You win some, you lose some... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted January 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Teejay, I can totally understand where you are coming from my friend! People like Emily's father deserve to NOT be in your lives anymore. I can imagine how much discontent you both have had to endure in the past. This is not easy and I can from personal experience.. People like unfortunately can ruin your life. I also totally understand how frustrated he as make you personally feel also! Now that he has passed...I think both of you will be quite a bit happier! Now he can not much up the waters anymore regarding your life with Emily.. Thanks for sharing my friend. I commend you for opening yourself up here!~ Something which is hard for me to do personally. Live your lives full now! Today is the first day of the rest of your life Teejay... Thanks for sharing my friend... Cheers, MM Thanks for the kind words and the understanding, my friend, it is very much appreciated As you say, today is the first day of the rest of our lives together, and that can only be a good thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonthebhoy Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Does this mean a watch sale? Sorry TeeJay I couldn't resist. I'm like that as you well know. Time to move on and forget friend. JTB Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FxrAndy Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 I'm with ya TJ,when a dic*head dies,F. em. +1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krayfish Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Thats a saying I like.........What Goes Around Come Around, thats so true........I try and help people and be a good person, Karma is a wonderful thing! So whens this wedding?? Could do with a party......lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted January 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Does this mean a watch sale? Well, there's going to be a lot of his stock to shift Sorry TeeJay I couldn't resist. I'm like that as you well know. Time to move on and forget friend. JTB No offense taken, this is the kind of humor which has made the day pass smoothly As you say, time to move on and forget +1 Thanks, bro, I had a feeling you'd see it that way too Thats a saying I like.........What Goes Around Come Around, thats so true........I try and help people and be a good person, Karma is a wonderful thing! So whens this wedding?? Could do with a party......lol You're absolutely right there, Karma is a wonderful thing A massive heart attack prevents a deathbed repentence He's in the hot place, where he belongs, for the way he behaved towards Emily and her mum, he's had this coming for a long time. Justice is served As for the party... The wedding is the 3rd, the reception is the 8th. Sadly, it's a full house, or you know there'd be invites on their way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krayfish Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Well, there's going to be a lot of his stock to shift No offense taken, this is the kind of humor which has made the day pass smoothly As you say, time to move on and forget Thanks, bro, I had a feeling you'd see it that way too You're absolutely right there, Karma is a wonderful thing A massive heart attack prevents a deathbed repentence He's in the hot place, where he belongs, for the way he behaved towards Emily and her mum, he's had this coming for a long time. Justice is served As for the party... The wedding is the 3rd, the reception is the 8th. Sadly, it's a full house, or you know there'd be invites on their way Dammit.........I had access to 500L of beer too! HEHE! I wish! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KB Posted January 23, 2009 Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Just one question, does his daughter feature at all in his will or did he stiff her there too? Ken Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted January 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2009 Dammit.........I had access to 500L of beer too! HEHE! I wish! Never mind :lol Just one question, does his daughter feature at all in his will or did he stiff her there too? Ken Absolutely no idea, my friend... A lot of his assets were actually in his wife's name, so whenever the child support agency tried to assess him, he could plead poverty... So from that point of view, he would have a hard job bequeathing her anything, which is actually not in his name It'll be interesting to see what happens, that's for sure Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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