Well Gran... In my mind, you're back in... It took a lot of balls for you to enter this thread with your armor off and your white flag waving, I salute you.
Just to let you and all know, the reason for me starting this thread was not to be hurtful in any way... These questions had to be asked, and I believe Gran has answered all to the best of his ability... and with his heart.
As someone earlier said, it takes time to build bridges... So take your time and build a strong one.
You are so lucky to have so many supporters here, as I am sure you do in your outside-of-the-forum real life, don't take advantage of that.
Again Gran, welcome back, all the best to you and yours, and I pray for your continuing speedy recovery