You know, being a better person is mandatory.
We all must try hard to be better.
But, and this is a revelation to me, being in love is an essential state.
I thought I have been in love ...several times.
I won't enter the details but I was in love only one time...with an angel in the early 80ies and we shared a fantastic couple of years.
Our common life was very special.
It took us 25 years to realise it and now we're in deep shit as she ain't single at the moment.
But we know the love story isn't gone...and wonder why we needed 25 years to understand it.
So, that is where we are at so far.
I doubt it will stay like that though...life is long, and we're only 48.