During the course of my experience with Mike, several things happened that caused me to believe that Mike has serious emotional problems. He is a young man on a bad course. I would just suggest that he suffers more than us from this episode. We'll move on, but unless Mike changes he will repeat this fiasco over and over in life. He suffers now--being a trusted member of this community was so important to him. A community should support its members--whether online or in real life. I also would suggest that all of us will be happier if we forgive him and recognize that he probably doesn't do this just out of evil intent (if at all), but because he is in turmoil and ashamed and trying to protect himself. That being said, we do Mike no favors by not teaching him a lesson here and, even with forgiveness, everyone deserves their property back. To the extent you have not done so, I would recommend sending an e-mail and registered mail telling Mike to cease work on any watches and send them back to you immediately. Inform him that failure to do so within one week will result in the local police being contacted. If it is true that Mike is holding onto several thousand dollars worth of watches, this is a serious crime and Mike faces a real chance of going to jail even if he has no record. He will also have to reimburse everyone. But first you have to establish that Mike is holding your watches without your permission--so do it in writing. If in the end the police are involved, be prepared not to get your replica watch back. It will be evidence, and while it is legal to purchase and own a replica, the police are going to have a hard time returning it. Also, it may be illegal to send it through the mail (I'm not sure about this). This approach avoids paying a lawyer at least initially. The police can do the work for you. But please try to do it without anger--its hard, I certainly get angry when I'm not careful--forgiveness can be a constant process but its worth it. And if we do it right, we (well, I've given up on my $320) can get our property back and help a fellow human being thrive in the future.
A few months ago I sent Mike several private emails pleading with him to return everyones' watches immediately and to rebuild his client base. I've offered to help him do it. I wish you had listened Mike. Please Mike, save your future and return all watches ASAP. If you have sold anyone's watch, you're in big trouble. There is no defense. I would try to work it out with that member before the police get involved--get some certified checks ready. You might want to talk to a lawyer first. Mike, you have placed yourself in a position where all your choices are bad--please choose the best of the bunch before it is chosen for you.
Just imagine--instead of allowing this continued descent into anger and name-calling we instead help a fellow human being achieve a more stable path in life. Its a win-win. Now that's an f'ing community. To do so, people have to be willing to post comments on a deeper level than the superficiality that pervades. Also, please don't respond to some of the members who have no interest in this.
Sorry for bothering everyone again. I check in only every few weeks only to find critical responses to what I think are very fair posts. Its strange that I keep being told to "drop it"--I barely pay any attention to this while some of those telling me to let it go are posting constantly. Much of my posts were to convince all of you to stop this nonsense and demand your watches back--Mike's behavior towards me was inexplicable and I laid it all out for you to see. And when you didn't get it the first time, I did it again and again. I'm sorry it seems to have offended so many, but I am proud of my conduct here--I tried to help Mike, I tried to help you and I tried to help myself. The passive-aggression comment from one of the members was fair and well-taken. Thank you for pointing that out to me. I think it was pretty mild but I was doing a bad job of dealing with my anger when I wrote that. I'll have to watch that. It clealry detracted from my message which is my fault. Thanks again!
I want to thank the gentleman for identifying other watchmakers for me--I'll contact them. Good luck everyone--I don't think Mike is a thief--there's still a chance you'll get your stuff. I hope so anyway.