simply put, there's no easy way
my dad supported a library his dad started
i support an orphanage in his name
while i lost my dad too soon he had prepared and trained me for everything except public(govt) schooling that my kids are subject to
that said, make the most of what you have
p.s.
i can go on into a endless drone of how we never existed, hence we never died but for now, stop reading this thread and go enjoy life for real