dylan Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 So a couple of weeks ago, my big brown 9 yr old chocolate lab had to be put down because of his spreading cancer. I was ready for this for a long time since he had been sick for a while. But I wasn't at all ready for tonight. My wife took our 2 shih tzus out for a walk... The older one is Pele and he's a grumpy little one...Dolly, our new puppy is a female and we bought her so that she could be Pele's companion and she's done wonders for his personality. His little angel... we always said she brought him out of his darkness. Anyways, for some reason my wife didn't leash Dolly when she went to other side of the street... a young couple approach her and she fled towards our apartment and in doing so a car driving much too fast rounded the corner and hit her. Its her instinct to run to our stoop. I heard screaming and I ran outside and there was my baby girl all bloodied...I scooped up her little body and went into hysterics. I have no idea why my wife brought her to the other side of the street nor why she wasn't on her leash, this is something I will have to come to terms with. In a flash our lives have been changed. I'm just remembering her right now...2 hrs ago I was sharing a nectarine with her and she was chasing marbles around our floor. Appreciate the moments you have with the souls that you love because you never know when they can be taken from your lives. She had this triangular head and when she sat down she would do a split...and look up at you with the cutest eyes....Completely headstrong and never listened to me...just would look up at me as to say, "I have you wrapped around my finger..." Oh...and she was a licker...would not stop licking every part of your face... Our shih tzus are like our children...and to have a baby taken from you...I don't wish it on my worst enemy...My little girl...I can't imagine the moment she was hit...the fear, the pain...Life so young should never be extinguished... I love you Dolly, my little girl, Pele's angel...we'll meet again.
Guest carlsbadrolex Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 DAMN... there probably isnt much that can be said to make you feel better about what has happened. But know that your friends here wish you the best. Thats just horrible.........
dylan Posted August 21, 2008 Author Report Posted August 21, 2008 Appreciated T... and you're right...not much to be said...it just puts things in perspective when tragedy hits...
promotersf Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 So sorry to hear that dave, I totally feel for you. I know you've been going through a bunch of things, and I remember smiling in a photo you had of you both I think in one of your avatars awhile back. Wishing you the best my friend
dylan Posted August 21, 2008 Author Report Posted August 21, 2008 Thanks D... Pele knows something is wrong...he keeps pacing around the whole place looking for her...its breaking my heart..
Shundi Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 Sorry to hear that Dave... it's tough enough to play God with them every 9 or so years but to have something like that happen...man, that's awful...
Ztech Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 I'm sure there isn't much I can say to make things right or better, but having been where you are now I can sympathize. My best wishes goes out to you. Hope that time will heal all.
ta8088 Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 Wow Dave I'm so sorry and sad to hear this. I remember it being not long ago that you were just telling us about the new puppy. I'm an avid dog lover myself and have have two Jacks. Both have managed to get off leash more than a few times and have scared me on a few occasions. Amazing what a big part of our lives these guys become and how much they mean to us. I've lost a couple in the past so I know how what you must be going through but kind of am lost for words. Just remember that they will live on in your heart and memories forever. My thoughts are with you, your wife, and Pele. We're here for you bro.
dabouncer72 Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 sorry to hear this, for it is indeed a sad thing that happened I hope the best to you and your family. Remember to cherish the good memories and let her rest in peace time will hopefully heal all
freddy333 Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 What can I say other than you have my deepest sympathies.
Nex_necO Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 I feel with you man. I've had my dog running off a coupple of times. And this is the worst fear that comes to mind. But remember to not blame your wife. She is probably as heartbroken as you, and it's easy to say things you don't mean when you are really upset. Sorry for your loss.
offshore Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 From one dog lover to another...I feel for you my friend. Offshore
stevethebest Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 I feel for you Dave! This can happen even if the dog is leashed, and this is exactly what happened to my mother and our Maltese baby...the car could have hit my mother too! It's a kind of a destiny, and YES you will meet her again!
bruce79 Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 Terrible News... I'm at a loss for words. I know your wife must be torn up too. Just got a little puppy of our own a couple of months ago...can't even imagine. I'm sorry Dave.
dylan Posted August 21, 2008 Author Report Posted August 21, 2008 thanks guys for the words... i wrote the initial post right after coming back from the ER... i definitely don't blame my wife and she's tortured enough as it is on her own...when i said coming to terms i meant more on the lines of all the "Why, why, why..." that comes about from the initial shock... its been about 6 hours since it happened...and now the initial pain is replaced with an emptiness...kind of walking around and it hits you as you walk room to room, visualizing the way she would play...
digi Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 (edited) I also have a few yorkie's and I love all dogs. I am so sorry to hear about this. My best wishes 2 u, your wife and your lovely dog. Digi. Edited August 21, 2008 by digi
scoobs1971 Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 Very sad to hear this. Sometimes life can be too rough...... Take care!
valerian Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 Oh man! I'm still new to this forum but it's threads like this that make me feel at home although the story is very sad. Dave, I am very sorry for you and your wife. I wish you all the best and I'm sure your dog is in a very good place now. Kind regards Valerian
dylan Posted August 21, 2008 Author Report Posted August 21, 2008 Welcome Valerian...you'll find a wealth of knowledge as well as an amazing group of people... 5:28 am...and i can't sleep...i don't feel like I can even breathe....i see her everywhere in my home...
iceberg1459 Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 she was very cute, i also had a pekinese, im very sorry for your loss if i were you i wouldnt hold my anger and beat out the driver
LordRasta Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 As the father of a Shih Tzu my heart goes out to you. Love and prayers from Rusty.
lanikai Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 I am so sorry man... been there too... only time will heal..
capice Posted August 21, 2008 Report Posted August 21, 2008 as said on RG bro...she is in a better world , remebre the good times you had together, take care
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