Very hard to follow the ever eloquent Demsey who summed it up so well but I do ask that we all remember one thing.....
We do need our VIP and Platinum members if we want to stay viable, sure there may be a fine line between getting that message out in an acceptable or forcible way, but the message does need to be kept to the forefront.
As stated time and again through this thread everyone is welcome and we are constantly looking at ways to get the noobs posting and thus becoming more a part of the community and as such the last thing we want to do is make them feel uncomfortable.
However 'the message does need to get out'
We owe so very much to Lanikai who has basically single handedly put us in a position where our Admin no longer has to post those pleading threads asking for donations, our core group of seniors (already plati members) no longer have to reach deeply into their pockets and your Admin team can concentrate on making this a better board instead of an endless search for revenue raising ideas.
The fact that he also spends so much time helping the newbies is just another feather in his cap.
So quite simply an honest answer to the OP's question "Is this forum free or not?" is 'No'....someone has to pay the server costs and that someone is our paid members.
The question is do people object to being reminded of this point in a forceful way or do they object to being reminded at all?
If you chose to support this forum or not is your choice so it is true that those that do shouldn't complain about those that don't but it is also true that those that don't have to accept paid members keep us afloat and are not just an elite old boys club.
Ken