Switch forums.
I read all three and am active on them all, but I gave up on trying to read all posts here as threads have a tendancy to be hijacked by old hands with in-jokes and running themes, which is inevitable on a forum with this many people that have lived together on other forums, but can get annoying if you're looking for a signal-to-noise ratio that's more watches, less banter.
Someone once described this forum as stepping off a pavement into busy traffic. That's an excellent analogy in my books.
One problem I had was when I subscribed to a thread that I thought would be useful, the moment the regulars got on it, I had to unsub as email notifications that someone called someone else whatever were polluting my inbox.
Don't get me wrong, I like it here, and am guilty of the banter myself from time to time, in spite of my being a newbie, but I can't treat this as the forum I live on.
I'm not going to hijack this thread as a promote-your-fave, so don't ask me about other forums, not even by PM. That is ungentlemanly.