kamber,
If I have a spare clasp end link, I'll send it your way. I will have to check the spares though.
As for ladies watches... Errrr, there aren't too many that I keep current on, mostly because the vast majority have CZs on them or other frilly stuff. Mrs. Ubi is a minimalist when it comes to watches, so she likes plain, simple SS or ceramic, no 'diamonds' or bling. For the time being she's content with her J12, and I'm currently building her TW Best ladies DJ into a franken...
In the past, she's tried the 40mm PAMs:
Just a bit too big and top heavy for her liking though. None the less, that might also be a nice option