The amazing thing is how this community works: both for the dealer, and for the buyer. When ones reputation is at stake, everyone tends to act like gentlemen. The forum helps regulate this shadowy hobby.
The unfortunate thing about the internet is its anonimity: it allows people to act differently than they are, or as they should. People will say or do things that in real life would get them a punch in the nose. People will talk (type) to you in the most obnoxious manner, only because there are no repercussions to doing so.
With a forum like this, there are solutions to problem people. The gentleman in question was not thinking clearly- he figured I'm going to screw this guy in Asia, when I live in the USA. He forgot that he was in fact screwing HUNDREDS of people in his state who would be interested in coercing the gentleman into correct behavior. Luckily, it didn't come down to that.
Andrew, you are a good man--- I've got your back.