It's degrading to women either way. But I'm not here to argue this point as clearly I'm not going to change any minds.
What does bother me is the attitude of "If you don't like it, you don't have to see it." People have to make a distinction between what is offensive to some and what is harmful to all. If you don't understand why such behavior is harmful, like I said, I'm not going to waste your time, nor mine.