Agree with the OP on this. I have a lifestyle that while I work a lot, I have the freedom to spend much time on the various forums via my phone mostly. Definitely sense the different flavor from one community to the next. Some forums I rarely post on because of the gang up mentality and in some cases downright rudeness. The lack of respect to other members and especially newcomers is just unnecessary. Reminds me of junior high, where insecure people gang up on the less fortunate to elevate themselves and make themselves feel better. Even if someone breaks the rules or violates forum etiquette, this can be handled without name calling and a gang fight. Simple to just remove them. I just have never found joy in being mean to others so I just would not participate in that type of behavior. Interesting that we just do not see much of that here. I know we have a lot less total members here, but still, rarely do we see any of this craziness. I think this connects back to what Mike and Pan are talking about. The senior members here set an example for all of us to follow and the example they set is to be a gentleman. So thank you to the members who have formed this community to be what it is--a warm and peaceful place to share with friends. I also am a fairly big/athletic guy who spends time in the gym everyday. I can relate to the fact that I cannot even remember the last time someone was disrespectful to me in person, but just yesterday some guy attacked me on one of the gen forums for no reason. I thought about sending him a PM with an address where we could meet, but the adult in me prevailed and I just ignored him.