I recall The Zigmeister stating somewhere that the rotor cannot spin fast enough to damage/stress the click wheels the way manual winding can on a poorly serviced movement. As Freddy stated: the watch should be fine- especially if the rotor isn't spining while you manually wind the watch.
A deposit just means that you've reserved a space...it doesn't mean something MUST be completed. If the deposit is refunded- I don't see the issue... you may not like it but R and Jennifer have completely fulfilled their business obligation to you...
I have had great success with the Skullcandy earbuds while using my iPhone... pretty good sound quality, volume adjustment feature (always a plus), comfortable as all hell... I think they're a great bang for the buck.
The Zigmeister just posted a topic on this regarding excessive emails... I understand that you're somewhat new to this and may be worried but I've never read anything remotely negative about The Zigmeister's work and I'm sure he'd have taken care of your watch perfectly...
The fact of the matter is: His capabilities list explains what he is willing/is not willing to do and that's the end of it...