Holy smokes you guys... I am overwhelmed by your kind words of wisdom and understanding. I have not seen this post of mine for a few days
and I am not ashamed to say that tears are flowing like a fountain.
I am flying to Denver today, Dad had a 7 hour operation yesterday to drain the huge cysts on his pancreas.5 Doctors have phoned me to advise me of
Dad's status. He is getting the very best care, however being 80 years old, his chances of surviving this are slim. I am so very heartbroken that
it is up to me to make life or death decisions on my Father. Somehow it does not seem fair, but I must honor what he has told me years ago about
being in this situation, and that is he does not want to suffer and die peacefully. So, I , having POA gave the Docs the do not recusitate order. I feel
it would be selfish of me to do otherwise.
From the bottom of my heart, I thank you all for your words of support. You guys have helped me more than I can express. Aloha, Eric